tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post3900214653404944772..comments2024-03-14T07:32:30.141+09:00Comments on Marketing Japan: Don't Create Your Life's Regrets: Having an Affairmike in tokyo rogershttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04977446676243085409noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-14867959110337723082013-12-17T15:25:08.360+09:002013-12-17T15:25:08.360+09:00Howdy, i read your blog occasionally and i own a s...Howdy, i read your blog occasionally and i own a similar one and i <br />was just wondering if you get a lot of spam remarks? If so how do you stop <br />it, any plugin or anything you can advise? I get so much lately it's driving me crazy so any assistance is very much appreciated.<br /><br /><br />Feel free to surf to my web page :: <a href="http://Www.Youtube.com/watch?v=mX8pifsC9k0" rel="nofollow">Easy Piano Lessons</a>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-29279358970949875932012-05-15T22:57:46.894+09:002012-05-15T22:57:46.894+09:00If it was my neighbor, I would not like the awkwar...If it was my neighbor, I would not like the awkwardness that the situation caused. I would be of the mindset "why should our neighbor relationship be upset because of the internal strife he/she is having"."Now, I have to deal with all this awkwardness. I never chose to spy on anyone". Nobody wants their dirty laundry inspected. Some mothers don't like motherhood. Some people fear aging. Some people are always searching for bigger-better-deal.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-21746919917258702452012-05-14T12:05:27.829+09:002012-05-14T12:05:27.829+09:00I've been there, a lie leads to a lie... You c...I've been there, a lie leads to a lie... You can justify anything to yourself and you can surround yourself with people who support that justification.<br />They reckon the grass is greener. It wasn't for me, it was a barren wasteland.<br />My cheating was messy and horrible, kids were involved etc etc and I know in some instances there can be a raft of issues, but to be frank I think most cheating comes about from ego and the individual's unwillingness to look within and address the core issues that lead to the situation in the first place.<br />I know when I did that and adjusted a few things in my life, things got better....<br />That's my two bob's worth anyway!<br />My wife and I are back together, kids are happy and I'm happy because I'm being honest with myself...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-89060883858034698542012-01-01T14:00:30.507+09:002012-01-01T14:00:30.507+09:00PS: I think in many ways that men are quite hypocr...PS: I think in many ways that men are quite hypocritical in their thinking.... Especially in the west. They want to go out have sex with many women, yet, if their woman did the same thing, they's go ballistic. I do, also, think that Wally is correct that having an affair is actually the norm. Perhaps it shows the sad state of morality in modern western society.mike in tokyo rogershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04977446676243085409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-8455378988346409052012-01-01T13:58:19.518+09:002012-01-01T13:58:19.518+09:00Nope. You're right. But since I am talking abo...Nope. You're right. But since I am talking about and living in industrialized (western) society, monogamy is the norm. If you wish to read my posting on the benefits of having five wives, it's over at my Arabic blog site called: العديد من زوجات جيدة (many wives good!)mike in tokyo rogershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04977446676243085409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-56053382178869951202012-01-01T12:13:06.721+09:002012-01-01T12:13:06.721+09:00"then why would they want another girl?"..."then why would they want another girl?"<br /><br />Ever see the film, The King and I ?<br /><br />This line was good, something like, "bee goes from flower to flower. Flower does not go from bee to bee."<br /><br />Also, you left out the poly lifestyle... Fiji is famous for that, native North American Indians too, the Arabs, some Africans, and so many other groups.<br /> <br />The question I wonder is, why is it ok in these other cultures and yet viewed as something terrible from a western (and apparently eastern too) viewpoint?<br /><br />The only "bad" parts I see is any deceptiveness and lying.<br /><br />I read about a South African tribesman discussing the reasons for having more than one wife, he mentioned something about the wives needing each other to defend themselves from lions attacking the livestock while the husband was away.<br /><br />If the economy gets as bad as some People say it will, bunching up makes Big sense. That ain't quite the same as serial monogamy though, is it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-72889775339787971982011-12-31T16:37:32.605+09:002011-12-31T16:37:32.605+09:00Thanks all,
Far be it from me to be judgemental o...Thanks all,<br />Far be it from me to be judgemental on this person. Yes, you are all correct. People have many motivations for what they do... I can only speak from the position of a pathetic guy who couldn't control his hormones... Sad, isn't it?mike in tokyo rogershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04977446676243085409noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-23039328219728170272011-12-31T14:27:51.934+09:002011-12-31T14:27:51.934+09:00I like your wife's take on this. Altho I hate ...I like your wife's take on this. Altho I hate to admit it, my wife's intuition is more often right than wrong, tho sometimes her scenarios seems much more fanciful than yours!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-20577602584761254962011-12-31T14:19:20.788+09:002011-12-31T14:19:20.788+09:00Linda probably just is hoping for something better...Linda probably just is hoping for something better, like the rest of us. She just doesn't know how to get it. Like most of us.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2207076947655236975.post-48910432015666660232011-12-31T13:13:16.536+09:002011-12-31T13:13:16.536+09:00I understand where your coming from, but I feel it...I understand where your coming from, but I feel it's only a sliver of the big picture. I think cheating is the norm rather than the exception. South Park had a very funny episode about how a wizard alien was responsible for men in power cheating on their wives, why else would they cheat? I heard 1 in 4 children in America is not the biological product of the father. Pretty amazing stat if true. The purpose and benefits of the wandering vole, or meerkat if you watch Discovery, are pretty well documented. Sex addicts aside, I think many people forget the power of boredom too--the Christians say idle hands are the devils playthings. Many cheaters also have great marriages. As many here in Japan know too, going to Thailand--a euphemism for sleeping with prostitutes-- is not considered cheating my many housewives since the men are paying for the service. My own fiancé has tried to persuade me from sleeping with prostitutes by suggesting happy ending massages were fine. A strange conversation since I'd never expressed any interest in 'going to Thailand'; however, I think she just assumed I would, here in Japan or abroad. Anyway, I think this subject often gets too light a treatment. I would like to see some serious investigation into it.Wally B. Kikenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09183512780463828533noreply@blogger.com